Niranjana Swami, A Very Considerate Person
By Rambhoru dasi
The first time I met Niranjana Swami was at our grand deity
installation in Ireland. He was sitting informally amongst all of us
and I was surprised that he was a sannyasi. He appeared then to be
just another young boy like the other bramacaries; very friendly and
bright. I remember he would often laugh as he was talking and he had
a great sense of humor. We were all sitting around having kirtan and
watching a video and he just fit in. He seemed to feel quite at home
in the association of devotees although none of the devotees had met
him before.
After this I did not see him for about 7 years and by then we had
moved to Vrindavan. When my youngest son went to Gurukula, I went on
traveling sankirtan in India with some of my husband`s disciples. In
India especially, I knew it did not look well for a mataji to be
traveling with a group of single men, but I was determined to preach
and I could see no other way. Still, I kept thinking, somehow I
should preach with ladies, but in India women are not organized so
much in an asram, so the only opportuniy was to meet women at the
Mayapur festival. I had taken on the responsibility of organizing the
women`s kirtan at the Gaur Mandala Parikrama. I led a lot of kirtans
for the ladies and did some managing.
For the past year I had been praying to Gaur Nitai to somehow find a
use for me. Generally, when a woman is no longer needed by her
family, it is a little frightening, because that has been her main
service for so many years. Especially in Vrindavan, there isn`t a lot
of strong preaching going on, so I was having a bit of a shaky time
finding out what Krsna really wanted me to do. Anyway, daily I would
present my petition before their Lordships, aware that I don`t have
an awful lot to offer the Hare Krsna movement, after all, the whole
basis of my realization of Krsna consciousness was through assisting
my husband and nurturing my children. What could I offer Lord
Caitanya`s mission?
Meanwhile, Lila Smarana, the senior mataji from Odessa approached me
at the Mayapur festival during the parikrama and asked me if I could
come to the Ukraine and help with the ladies there. I didn`t take it
very seriously as the previous year another woman had invited me to
CIS and nothing ever came of it. So I said, "Sure, I can come, but
you have to ask your GBC first and you will have to buy me a ticket."
I figured that would sufficiently discourage them if it wasn`t
Krsna`s desire. I thought nothing more about it.
When we returned from the parikrama, I was called to meet with
Niranjana Swami in the Lotus Building. I was really surprised that he
was enthusiastic for me to go to the Ukraine. Often when the women
nag in our movement, the leaders comply just to create peace, but he
was actually expressing gratitude that I should come and help the
devotees. At that time he revealed that he had been praying for an
older mataji to come and he had even made several attempts for wives
of his god-brothers to come, but so far nothing had worked out. By
this time I had the sneaking suspicion that this was the personal
arrangement of Their Lordships Sri Sri Gaur Nitai. Everyone knows,
if you have any desires in Vrindavan, Krsna personally arranges to
fulfill them.
When I finally went to the Ukraine, I was overwhelmed with how much
special consideration Niranjana Swami had given to my coming so I
would not be inconvenienced in any way. The devotees said that he had
personally called them and instructed them that I should not have to
pay for any personal expenses and that they should take care of me
nicely. After 23 years of being married in ISKCON I had already
grown quite comfortable being the shadow of my husband and playing
the role of the Muci Mother that I am. So, I was very surprised to be
treated with so much respect as an old lady. I could only understand
that Niranjana Swami had given the devotees personal guidance and
training how to treat the guest as `God`. This was all to his credit,
as the disciples are simply a reflection of the mood of their
spiritual master.
As I got to know Lila Smarana, she revealed to me that she had also
been praying to Krsna the previous year, how she was going to
convince me to come to the Ukraine. When she said this to me I could
understand that Krsna had organized a situation for the satisfaction
of all three of our desires; Niranjana Swami`s, Lila Smarana`s and
mine. It was no accident. I realized that Niranjana Swami must be a
very confidential servant of Krsna,